“Everything you do is based on the choice you make, is not your parents, your past relationship, your job, the economy, the weather, or an argument on your age that is to be blamed. You and you only is responsible for every decision and choice you make”.
This is often said to someone who is anxious to make a good impression, “just be you”. What this means is that I think you are Ok the way you are, you do not have to pretend to be someone else before you can impress people, you have to know that those person’s where themselves, and with that achived a lot. Most times you don’t really have to do what most people are inclined to do, whether is telling jokes etc.
Do not aim to please or impress people, if you aim at doing that you are not been yourself.
Get to know yourself, take time to reflect on your values, goals, aspiration and how you really want to live.
Develop your focus skills. When you stay focused you to tend to ignore what people say or think about you, but how to the best of you.
You become a better version of who you are
You invite the right company of associates
You feel more relaxed.
Author of this article: Kelvin Diri
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